Are you Masking the Real YOU?

pritty masksIf you want to be happy and at peace there is one thing you must do without fail.  And that one thing is to be YOU.  This sounds very simple, but it’s often missed.  You are a special version, a unique person.  No one in this world can be you.  You are the only You.  You have a unique set of talents and abilities.  Your destiny is unique to you.  You are happy and at peace when you freely express and develop those unique qualities.  Whatever decisions you make, be sure those decisions let you be YOU.

One of the worst mistakes anyone can make is to hide their true feelings, beliefs, and talents while trying to’ fit-in’ to someone elses idea.  This happens often in dating relationships.  Someone is attracted to another and really wants the relationship to continue.  So, they begin acting like the person they think the other wants.  They begin to alter themselves into someone else for the sake of maintaining the relationship.   A solid relationship must be built upon a foundation of authenticity.

Sadly many continue the false front even into marriage.  Many times it is not just one partner who alters themself, but both.  It is no wonder such marriages don’t work.  There comes a time when the true self must come through and the mascaraed ends.  Have the courage to be YOU.  Never pretent to be anyone other than your authentic self.  You may not be able to impress everyone, but you will attract someone who truly apprecates the unique set of talents, abilities, likes and dislikes that are the authentic  YOU.

You need not worry what the other is thinking or feeling and don’t assume you know their thoughts.  Never play the role of ‘mind reader.’   If something is important, the other will tell you and you can discuss the matter.   If you have a question, ask it.  Concern yourself only with what  you can control……your own thoughts and feelings.  Be true to yourself.  Then you will be the authentic partner someone special is looking for.

For now, Earlynn’s just sayin’:  “There’s no one else in this whole wide world who can be YOU.  So accept yourself, love yourself, be proud of your talents and abilities, and you’ll find the happiness and peace you’re looking for.”

If you would like your copy of Earlynn’s book, Transformed, just click on the above tab “Earlynn’s Book’ to order your copy.  Thank you.  God Bless

About Earlynn

Earlynn is a spunky mother, grandmother and yes, even a great grandmother. I have always been drawn to things spiritual from the time I was very young. Over the years I have read, studied and prayed that God would use me to bring comfort to troubled minds. That is my purpose more than anything else, but along the way I have also lived a very happy life. I love my family....5 children, 5 inlaws, 18 grandkids and four great grandkids. I am a master cake decorator, I love gardening, I am passionate about health and nutrition. I love parties and gatherings of family and friends. I love cooking and at least twice each year I host dinner for 50. I love writing, teaching and public speaking. I love my sweetheart. We met when we were only 10 years old and will soon celebrate our 50th anniversary. Everything I do is centered on my spiritual beliefs and I know love is the answer to all of life's problems. Join me on my web site as we explore many ideas, laugh a little and love a lot.
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